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Moving Mom – Be Ready, When The Time Comes To Move Your Elderly Parents

I had my last child at age 42, which I’m told increases my odds of becoming a centenarian (100+ years old.) The thought of being around to enjoy more time with my children is appealing, but I’m not sure my kids would be that excited about spending time with their 100-year-old mom! Both of my (long-ago divorced) parents are robustly enjoying their 80’s, but as my mom nears her 90th birthday we, like thousands of other 40/50-somethings, are making plans for Mom to come live with us. We are fortunate that my Mom is healthy enough not to require professional care on a daily basis, so she will be moving into our son’s bedroom and we’ll create a living space for him in our basement.…

What Should I Pass Onto My Children?

I have inherited the possessions of two relatives in my life, and it was an overwhelming experience I am determined NOT to pass on to my children! From bulky wooden pieces of furniture to trinkets from world travels, I had to try to unravel the history and value of the multiple mementoes my grandmother had left behind. Like an archeologist, I unearthed studiously wrapped up and ferreted away treasures I discovered in the far end of bureau drawers and closets. Nana had surprised me by labeling a few of her more precious pieces, but knowing where they’d come from, or their age, wasn’t enough to take me back to that place and time she’d found so important. This is why most of us hold onto mementoes,…